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RESOLUTIONS BE GONE

Posted on December 31, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“Good resolutions are simply checks that men draw on a bank where they have no account.” (Oscar Wilde) As I ready myself for the new year and turn the page of my daily planner – the outmoded, non-digital, paper printed version I will never relinquish – I proudly enter 2026 resolution free.  New … Continue reading →

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THE SHEEN OF RELEASING SHAME

Posted on September 14, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“Shame is a soul eating emotion” (Carl Gustav Jung) A great hindrance to a hopeful future comes by remaining shackled to the past.  The inability to forgive ourselves for even the smallest transgression keeps us chained in shame.  From nights … Continue reading →

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THE NIGHT HAS A THOUSAND EYES

Posted on July 18, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“Strange feeling that someone is looking at me. I am clear, then dim, then gone, then dim again, then clear again, and so on, back and forth, in and out of someone’s eye.” (Samuel Beckett, Happy Days) The latest meteor … Continue reading →

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AN OLD BOY FROM IRELAND

Posted on June 21, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished:  If you’re alive, it isn’t” (Richard Bach) “How will I be remembered?” is a looming question that finds its way into the mind of every person with … Continue reading →

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ROAD TRIPPIN’

Posted on June 5, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“It’s not the destination, it’s the journey” (Ralph Waldo Emerson) It was a dark, icy morning over a decade ago when I packed the last of my belongings into my car and set off for a new life in Los … Continue reading →

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EASY COME, EASY GO

Posted on April 6, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

I read with sadness recent news that another notable teen idol from my childhood, Bobby Sherman, was now struggling in his battle with Stage IV cancer at the age of 81. Cancer is a beast with tentacles, wrapping itself around every … Continue reading →

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THE FEAR OF FOREVER

Posted on February 8, 2025 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” (Mark Twain) Since insomnia has become a constant companion, I let my … Continue reading →

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REFLECTING LIGHT

Posted on November 15, 2024 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“There is a sadness in realizing that the person you have become is not the person you once wanted to be. It is the sadness of looking back on your life and seeing all the ways you have compromised, all … Continue reading →

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CATFISHING IN THE DATING POND

Posted on October 1, 2024 by KAREN SGAMBATI

“Man is not what he thinks he is, he is what he hides.” (André Malraux) Back in the late ’90s, I was catfished by one of online dating’s earliest practitioners. The term hadn’t been invented yet, of course, but the … Continue reading →

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THE STORY IN MY EYES

Posted on September 14, 2024 by KAREN SGAMBATI

Something embarrassing happened this week.  I recently moved from the state of Cal-if-FOR’-NI-yay (‘swimmin’ pools, movie stars’) to another, until I reach the destination where I will hang my final hat (that will be for another post, first I must … Continue reading →

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